Sunday, 17 March 2013

It's all in a name.



 You will remember that at the end of last year I went to China for a wedding. Chinese weddings are quite different in their timing to western weddings. They actually got legally married some time before. They sign the papers, which is the legal side of it, but they are not considered to be properly married until the big party, which is what I attended. However, having been legally married for some time, his wife was pregnant at the big party I attended and their baby is due in the next week or so.

Today I talked to him on the Chinese equivalent of MSN. He told me what names they have chosen for the baby. When westerners choose a name it comes down to what we like, and in our case goes with our rather awkward family name, but we don’t give much thought to the meaning of the name.

In China it is very different and their names have quite significant meanings. These are the names they have chosen, and what they mean.

His family name is Ke…said like Kerr. That name means wood, strong wood as in a strong tree or forest.

For a boy’s name they have chosen…Ke Yao Ting.
This is what the names mean:
Ke….wood…tree…strong like a strong forest tree.
Yao…the sun in the sky and the stars…
Ting…strong rain.
He explained that it meant that the sun and the stars together with strong rain or plenty of rain will make the wood or tree strong. If the child lives up to this name he will be a strong person, steady like a large tree.

For a girl’s name they have chosen:
Ke Xi Ying.
Ke…wood..trees…strong like a forest tree.
Xi…light… but not as strong as the sun…more like the light at dawn, tender sunlight.
Ying…water, but not strong rain…. more like a small stream, a gentle small river.
If the girl lives up to this name she will be like a tender sapling of a tree fed by a gentle stream, but not as strong as a man.

The words in the boy’s name are stronger, more forceful. The words in the girls name are softer,  not so powerful, as a girl is not as powerful as a man.

I thought they were lovely names. Now it is my job to come up with a suitable English name. That could be a bit tricky

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